Money is one of those topics that can bring couples together—or tear them apart. It’s loaded with emotion, history, expectations, and fears. Yet many couples never learn how to talk about money well. The truth: you don’t just need love to last—you need financial alignment. Without it, resentment, misunderstandings, or hidden secrets often fester. 1. Start with your money story Every person brings a financial upbringing, habits, and beliefs. Were you taught to save or to spend? Did you grow up in scarcity or abundance? Understanding your partner’s “money DNA” helps you see not just the numbers, but the fears and triggers behind them. 2. Choose the right time & mindset Don’t bring up budgets in the middle of dinner arguments or stressful moments. Pick a calm, uninterrupted space. Set the frame: this isn’t about blame or judgment, but about understanding and planning together. 3. Be transparent about reality Transparency means talking about incomes, debts, ...